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Unheard Voices Speak Up
September 18, 2007 - "Not even my closest friends and family know about this," she writes. The...


Coping Successfully After an Abortion
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  • Was it right at the time?

    2007-12-28 - I believe so.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • My Choice

    2007-10-24 - I comtemtplated it. Should I? Is it right? Is It what I want?

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • Memories of a Miscarriage..

    2007-10-22 - I never got a chance to get to know you

    Posted by: Person

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  • I'm not sure if I regret or not

    2007-10-22 - I never told him and never will. I love him too much.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • Difficult Choice

    2007-10-18 - I was 4 months pregnant, with an 8 year old daughter....

    Posted by: Painful but right choice

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  • Gone but not forgotten

    2007-10-17 - Abortion is hard. The physical pain goes away but the emotional pain stays with you for a long time. Yet, if I had to do it all over again, I would.

    Posted by: First Child

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  • Think First

    2007-10-12 - I wish I thought about my other options. I'm still paying for my actions. The hurt and the pain isn't worth it.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • $1500 took a life in 2005

    2007-10-11 - I was so nervous to go to this doctor to perform an abortion. I was 18 years old at the time and I had just got accepted to go to university. I thought my mother did not want me to ruin my future and cause embarrassment...so I made a choice...

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • I was 18 yrs old

    2007-10-08 - I had three abortions from the ages of 18 years to 19 years. Every three to four months I would get pregnant again

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • The "First Time" Mistake

    2007-10-02 - It happened on my first time!!!

    Posted by: First Timer

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  • Emotional and mental torture

    2007-10-02 - Sometimes doing things that are convenient at the moment comes back to haunt our future.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • Regrets and Pain

    2007-10-02 - My mother was devastated and she bought me some Cytotec tablets. After taking those I felt like a truck ran over me about nine times

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • I was a fool

    2007-10-01 - Ten years of not being good enough to have his baby and ten months for her to be!

    Posted by: Foolish 22

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  • Smart yet Stupid

    2007-10-01 - I have had five abortions in five years! Sounds awful I know but I felt like I had no choice...

    Posted by: Still worried

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  • So many reasons to

    2007-09-30 - Using birth control would mean admitting to myself that I was sexually active and therefore no longer a "good girl." I certainly wasn't ready for that!

    Posted by: D.

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  • Abortion

    2007-09-30 - Starting from the age of 16, the number of abortions I had cannot be even counted starting. I thought that one day I would eventually die from taking so many pills.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • My July

    2007-09-28 - To this day I still feel alone because I've kept it a secret... a burden.

    Posted by: Forgive Me

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  • I don't regret doing it, just that it had to be done at all

    2007-09-27 - Not only would I have to deal with the fallout of telling my parents I was unmarried and pregnant, but now I would have to do so without the father there to back me up.

    Posted by: Older and wiser

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  • I regret that I wasn't braver.

    2007-09-27 - I wanted to get a job with my new degree, lose weight and move out of our cramped apartment that didn't allow for children. Most of all I didn't want to be a victim of circumstances.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • It was five minutes that felt like five years

    2007-09-25 - It's my third but I'm still in tears over my first

    Posted by: Ziii

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  • Trust me. It isn't easy

    2007-09-25 - I am 27 and I have been trying to get pregnant for the past two years and it seems futlile.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • Two abortions and three kids

    2007-09-24 - I had two abortions over a long period of time, but to this day I wish I kept them...

    Posted by: Sad Trini in Canada

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  • He didn't take responsiblity...

    2007-09-24 - I couldn't do my child what my parents did me. But now I've been diagnosed with PCOD... I'm scared

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • They were disappointed but it is my life.

    2007-09-23 - A few days later he asked me 'why did you turn your womb into a tomb'.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • Had no other choice but to...

    2007-09-20 - Initially when I found out, I was happy but eventually I had an abortion because I did not know who the father was.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • I had one and said no more but...

    2007-09-18 - I've had two abortions and one full term pregnancy. Today I can't imagine life without my son.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • Two abortions and childless.

    2007-09-18 - Growing up in a Christian enviroment and being a Sunday school teacher left me almost no choice when I got pregnant after my first sexual encounter.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • Until You Live It You Won't Know It

    2007-09-17 - I had two abortions and I didn't have a choice but to do them. I have a son now and I'm blessed to have him.

    Posted by: At Peace

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  • unfortunate decisions

    2007-09-14 - I am pregnant again, this time for a guy with whom I am having a secret relationship. He wants the child but I really can't, given the circumstances

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • We all make stupid mistakes

    2007-09-14 - We have all made mistakes. Give others the room to make mistakes and still rise up. Give us a chance to be women. We should not have to die for every mistake we make.

    Posted by: Marie

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  • No way out!

    2007-09-12 - Now I have a great job and a boyfriend with whom I'd like to have kids, but it's an emotional rollercoaster for me at times...

    Posted by: Soryah

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  • A mistake I wish I never had to make.

    2007-09-12 - To this day I don't regret what I did. I just wish it never happened.

    Posted by: Alexandria

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  • The one thing I would change

    2007-09-11 - Then I recieved a phone call from his supposedly ex common law wife informing me that he was having an affair with me and she was 7 months pregnant.

    Posted by: Velfa

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  • The grief of five abortions

    2007-09-11 - The pain I experienced during the five abortions is not as excruciating as the pain I feel each day of my life thinking about my sweet babies I destroyed and could never see again.

    Posted by: ANONYMOS

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  • the worst experience of my life

    2007-09-11 - When my period still did not come I went back again and the doctor 's response was "what you carrying there?"

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • I can't relate!!

    2007-09-11 - If my mother gave in to my father's request then I wouldn't be here

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • Turn back the hands of time

    2007-09-11 - I was so in love that I put him before my unborn son

    Posted by: D'Angelo

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  • I still wonder

    2007-09-10 - One son, two abortions, one faithful guy, wrong timing, emotions still there...

    Posted by: Keziah

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  • I did it for myself

    2007-09-07 - I definitely do not regret having had an abortion. I have too much to look forward to in life. But from now on I will most certainly adhere carefully to my contraceptives, so as to avoid this situation again.

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • Not every mistake is a disaster...

    2007-09-06 - Having her was the best thing that could have happened to me... not every mistake is a disaster

    Posted by: Anonymous

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  • To do or not to do?

    2007-09-05 - I have had four abortions and I am now 34 years old. All because I did not want my children to be brought up in poverty and to cause shame in the family.

    Posted by: Afraid to tell

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  • Hidden Pregnancy

    2007-09-05 - I was innocent at the time... searching for love in all the wrong places.

    Posted by: Simple

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  • I've Never Done it. But...

    2007-09-04 - I'm 19 and carefree. Mix that with a boyfriend who is 21 and carefree, and you may have a problem.

    Posted by: Secret

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  • My Experience of Safe Abortion

    2007-08-30 - I have never regretted my decision, nor have I felt guilty about doing what I did (I am Catholic). I firmly believe that women should have complete control over their fertility and pregnancy and wished that women in Trinidad and Tobago had access to safe and legal abortion services, like that offered at the clinic I attended.

    Posted by: Frances

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  • Hard start, Happy ending

    2007-08-28 - I was pregnant at the age of 14years. It was not just that I was still in a school uniform. My boyfriend was also 15 years older and of another ethnic group...

    Posted by: Marsha

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  • The dangers of unsafe abortion

    2007-08-27 - Why are women taking Cytotec unsupervised?

    Posted by: Nadia

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  • Please change the law

    2007-08-27 - I was lucky. I knew someone who had the info. What about the women out there who do not have half of the info I had and REALLY cannot have a child or another one?

    Posted by: Activist

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  • I swear I wasn't irresponsible...

    2007-08-27 - I knew I didn't want to get pregnant and did what I was supposed to do. But something went wrong...

    Posted by: Nordette

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  • I did it three times and still think about it

    2007-08-27 - Is there a respectable number of abortions one woman should have? At what point does your history of terminating pregancies become taboo?

    Posted by: Natasha

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  • Maria's Story

    2006-09-27 - Maria was 15 when she missed her period. Together with James, her boyfriend, she decided to terminate the pregnancy.

    Posted by: ASPIRE

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  • Tricia's Story

    2006-09-27 - Her name is Tricia and at age 24 she is the first woman in her family to go to university.

    Posted by: ASPIRE

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  • Deborah's story

    2006-09-27 - Deborah is approaching retirement and after almost 34 years of marriage, she has not regretted a decision she made almost two decades ago.

    Posted by: ASPIRE

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  • Patrice's Story

    2006-09-27 - Patrice has wrangled with teen motherhood, single parenthood, a rape and two unwanted pregnancies . . . all before age 21.

    Posted by: ASPIRE

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